My husband always keeps condoms in a travel bag that he keeps on the bathroom sink. He keeps other things in there also for easy access -- razors, deoderant, etc. He used to bring the bag to my house when we were dating and we used condoms at times. Nothing weird there.
A couple of weeks ago, while I was cleaning the bathroom, I dropped his bag and the condoms fell out of the zippered part he keeps them in (the zippered part is never zipped up). I noticed there were 3 condoms in the bag. Yesterday, I went into his bag for scissors (like I always do) and noticed there were only 2 condoms in the bag.
Additional facts: He had a herpes outbreak about 10 days ago, so we have refrained from sex (which is why we have condoms around). I started my period 2 days ago, so still no sex. I am confused and sick to my stomach over the missing condom. I thought maybe he used one to masterbate, but I have never known him to do that. This morning I jokingly asked if he's had to "release" because it's been a while since we have had sex (I had to!). He said no -- that during an outbreak it's uncomfortable to do that. I also noticed that he zipped up that part of the bag this morning.
Any thoughts on this? Should I confront him? He's never given me reason to not trust him, although I believe he has cheated in the past - before he met me.