My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years now. I was his first, but he wasn't mine. So, of course, I'm the only person he's ever been with. When we were teenagers our sex life was exciting and new so we couldnt keep our hands off eachother. And since we weren't allowed to sleep in the same bed we were a little adventurous in choosing our locations. Now that we've moved in together I'm starting to notice myself getting...well...bored. His personality is very (let me choose my words carefully here) respectful and caring. To be honest I miss the passion and animalistic "do me now" attitude. We were long distance for a year or so and every time we saw each other again we had that amazing reunited flame that I just don't see anymore. I don't usually like to take the lead but if I don't it just doesn't seem to happen. I know it's not an emotional problem because we still cuddle, hug and fall asleep in eachother arms every night. I don't even think he's noticed the decline in our sex life.
I don't know how to go about fixing this. If I talk to him about it I don't want to hurt his feelings.