I just found oit my husband had a fling last fall about 2 months. Ha is an alcoholic and she was a bartender at a bar. She has criminal records, etc - nothing Like me. He is very remorseful and says he feels he was "insane" at that time period. Was drinking 4-5 nights a week. He has since gone to rehab and come clean to me - because the flings friend sent me a message on Facebook. He says he regrets this and she never meant anything to him. That she could've been anybody - it was about him feeling sorry for himself and being influenced by Alcohol. We have been together 20 years and have two children. He wants to work it out - go to marriage counseling- says he will do whatever it takes. I just feel so betrayed. Is there life after an infidelity?? Can a marriage survive?? How do I start getting over this and move forward?? Thanks all.