I`m new here but I was curious, how would someone go about talking to their SO about their fantasies in the bedroom?
My SO and I have a great sex life, but of course we all have our own secret desires. I am hesitant to bring mine up to him. I dont want him to think I`m a freak!!
For instance, I have often fantasized about being held captive and forced to perform. That, and many other things. We have tried light bondage, him tying my arms, blindfolds, etc.. But how do I approach him and see if he would go further?? Also, how do I get him to talk about his fantasies? (besides two women, we have already been there).
Any ideas or suggestions?? Thanks!