My husband and I have been married for two years going on three but have been together for five. He treats me awesome. He is a true gentlemen. This is his second marriage and my third. I'm 45 and He is 48. Our Children are grown and we have one Grandchild. The problem is in the bedroom. I feel like He is in his seventees instead of 48! I have to ask Him if we can have date night and he agrees and then it's nothing. We are lucky if we have sex three times a month. It was great when we were dating. He lived 2000 miles away. As soon as we moved in, it went seriously down hill. I'm really lost on what to do because I'm starting to have fantasy's about other men and having that WOW moment that I am not getting at home. I could never hurt him like that but I'm scared because I'm a sexual women and am longing for the intimacy and attention and I'm not getting it at all. I've tried talking to Him over and over about it and He tells me that only makes Him not even want it more! I don't know what to do.