I met this guy. I am 37 and he is 41 - he seems perfect for me. So far we had only one date. I find it very easy to talk to him. We have a few things in common. However, he told me he is $7,000 in debt. Is this a normal thing these days? I was surprized he told me so I didn't really ask questions. Do any of you know others in debt like he is? Is this normal? I mean I finally meet someone I like and it's rare to find guys who DON'T want kids (because I don't either) but now I have to deal with his debt? !!!!