I'm back in the online dating scene after a lengthy (3 years) relationship and seem like a total novice. Ive been writing emails instead of winks b/c i understand women prefer, but very little response back. Ive been told my messages are too long (which i agree) and give away too much info at once.
What kind of message do women find intriguing? Something brief like "hi, i like your profile, write me back"? Do i ask specific questions related to their profile??? How much detail do i give about myself?
I want to show interest without sounding like a jerk, but also not bore them to death.