My husband and I have been married fifteen years. I'm 38 and he's 47 and we have 10 year old and 4 month old boys. My husband is a wonderful father and on the most part is a wonderful husband and I love him very much....except for the fact that I have found porn on my computer this past December and I confronted him on it.We talked about it and I told him that it makes me feel highly insecure about myself, especially being pregnant at the time.My doctor told me no intercourse during my pregnancy. But that did not mean that we couldn't do 'other things" to satisfy each other.I was ttotally up for sex despite being pregnant, and I told my husband that. But, it obviously did not resonate with him. Flash forward 2 days before Valentines day. I found porn on his phone like redtube,pornhub and other sites. I confronted him once again and he denied looking that up and said he did not know how it got there(classic answer, right)? Once again, I told him how it made me feel and he swore up and down that he did not look that up. We did wind up having sex, but only once since after I had confronted him the second time. I continued to snoop through his phone for porn and noticed he had not looked any up. We are now into May and still no sex after about 2 months. Because of this pattern with no sex, I decided to snoop through his phone about a week ago,( I know it's bad, but I have to get down to the bottom of this). Sure enough there it is. Porn. I saw he had done a search on google for it, because he mispelled some words. So now i know he had lied to me the first time i found it on his phone. I have not confronted him yet this time around. I feel sad, angry and very cheated about it. Especially for the fact that he doesn't even touch me let alone have sex. I'm tired of making the first move.It has been this way for a few years now as far as initiation goes. Most men complain that their wives don't want to have sex with them and he's completely taking me for granite. Help! I need advice.