Hi everyone, really need some help here. I know the answers maybe i just need confirmation. I had a BF for 3 months who asked to be exclusive pretty much right away. We moved a little fast but it was comfortable, talked about the future etc. All the time we dated, he was receiving, and responding to texts from women that contained naked pictures and suggestive type stuff. He also had a fake facebook where he was a girl and subscribed to swingers sites. The sad part, is other than that very weird stuff, he was a normal guy. That of course making him not so normal. I found the texts and pics by accident on his phone, then of course not feeling they went away i looked for them on occasion which i know is not good as i didn't trust him. he never stopped this. I went back and forth with this not working...after the last time it happened he said well I don't think this is going to work, you are never going to trust me. I love you and want to make you happy and I'm not sure I can do that. So what do you all make of this? I am really sad and hurt. I told him if i was good enough to talk marriage with, i was good enough to prove to that you can be trusted. I don't want to be with someone i can't trust. Maybe i need a pep talk..I also need to see both sides i guess because I am very much thinking I am completely right. Thank you for any input!