I am SO angry and hurt right now, I could scream! (breathe...). Ok some background info. My little sister and I never had an awesome relationship, but a few years ago things were starting to go really well. We could talk with each other, and confide in each other, etc. Now a year ago she met a young man who was nice enough, and his family was very nice as well. BUT, she changed everything about herself to mold to his family and what they did and liked, and with this came almost complete disregard for her own family. Well I was just getting use to accepting that this was how it was going to be, when on Mother's Day, of all days, my own mother informs me that this young man and my sister are on their way to a special vacation, which will be a total surprise for her, and that he is going to propose. She couldn't be bothered to call either our mom or me to wish us Happy Mother's Day, but I'm suppose to jump for joy that my sister, who has also been very self involved and has never given a f**k about our mom(sorry but it's true) is getting engaged to man that has changed everything about her?! Well we weren't sure when it was going to happen but I was told to prepare for "a very emotional" call from her. But wait! No no no! How do we all find out that he had popped the question!? ON FACEBOOK! Almost all of her friends knew before her own family! I should also add that his family is with them on this vacation, so they get to be involved in the whole thing. I love my sister, I do, but sometimes she is so incredibly thoughtless that it's sickening. Our mother has emotionally worked very hard over the last year to accept that her daughter has spent all of her free time with this man and his family(and couldn't be bothered to come join us for holidays). She was so heartbroken last night, she was in tears with me on the phone for hours. I was told, via Facebook, that they should be calling us sometime today and I am trying so hard to remain calm and not just rip into them when they call..... BREATHE. Ok sorry, just had to get that all off my chest.