I always thought of myself as the black sheep of the family.. Now at 59 years old and the middle child its still like this.. A little back story.. I came to live with my sister four years ago due to divorce and trying to save money ..My mom lives here also but a few months ago she had a heart episode and has been in rehab for a few months.. so now its my sis and me and dog and cat.. Sis works so I take care of the house and animals and things ..
Well my sister and family have always been sort of cold and distant and it hasnt changed in all these years.. I have a handful of friends and a brother but most people dont bother that much anymore .. Now its the grand children and all of that stuff. I have one older son and no grandchildren.
My sis has a boyfriend and they are so selfish and act like I dont even exist but that is nothing new.. Now I am going to move out but what do you do when your FOO is dysfunctional and friends are limited... Have no boyfriend and no SO so its challenging.. I dont want to sound like a victim but just does anyone have any ideas for me??? Do you just stay alone or find another family?? I am not into animals so that wont be a good idea..
Its like I would love to just hand pick another family who gives unconditional love and all but how does one go about that and is that possible??