I didn't know if anyone was here anymore, but have been needing to post and been unable to log in.
We finally got our order about 2 weeks ago from December. He still has unsupervised visitation but the boys are allowed a choice in whether they go with him or not.
He did not schedule the first week, and then failed to call our place of exchange to set the appointment. I got a nasty email from him on Saturday, blaming me for him missing his visitation, amongst a lot of other terrible things.
He got his Sunday visitation, but my oldest chose not to go. My youngest went. When he came home he was happy and in a good mood (I was thankful) but he is really chatty when he is in a good mood. So he went on and on about how they went house hunting and how Dad (and his wife) told my youngest they were looking for a bigger house, so he and his brother could have thier own rooms when they came back to live with them, Ugh. And so it starts. He went for the kill right away. The manipulation kills me. He also bought him lots of birthday presents because his birthday was monday, but he wasn't allowed to bring them home. He can only play with them when he comes back to Dads. (manipulation).
I feel a sense of danger now. Looking over my shoulder. It's terrible.