Here is the back story... About two years ago I met a guy online dating .. We met for a date and he was really nice and we had a good time.. He is 60 years old and lives in Staten Island New York and you guys know I live on Long Island. NY.. After the date he went back home and we remained sort of friends... Talking online and on phone once in awhile.. Over the two years he has told me about his dates and last two gfriends..Both of whom sounded to me very unstable. but now he is without a relationship.. . Anyway; He never came to visit or asked me out again.. I assumed it was the distance although I never really asked and never thought much about it..
Fast forward to present time and we were talking on facebook for a few weeks and over the year and he would still call and say hi and all.. Well last week he took a ride where I live with his friend and he came to my house and we all went out for lunch and the beach and all. I think I mentioned this on my other post.. Anyway;; He is now flirting with me on facebook and I think asking me out again but I am not sure.. He said we have to go to the new restaurant where you live (me) and check that out.. I said okay anytime let me know.. He is off for the summer as he is a professor..
Now I dont care but just saying and you know us women thinking sounds like a FWB to me and wondering should I do it if that is what he is thinking or I mean how many offers will I get at my age ?? (lol)...But do friends with benefits get dates and dinner??. So either its a fling or FWB right??
I just want to be somewhat prepared for this if it ever happens??