I keep going back & forth in my mind about this. I unhid my profile from POF after hiding it for several years. Yes, you read that right. I've only been on there for maybe a week and I've received a lot of hits. Some guys seem nice to talk to. But a huge part of me hates OLD. No, I don't want to be single for the rest of my life. But at the same time, having to log on POF every day to read my messages and reply and browse my matches is exhausting for me and sometimes, I find it dreadful. And I'm not desperate to find a guy. The other half of me enjoys being single. I know there is no clear cut answer. But how do you know if OLD is right for you? Some of my friends have actually met their husbands through match or POF. And that's great for them! And they keep telling me to be patient with it. I just don't know.