It has been almost three years since my father died and I am getting angrier and angrier at my mother because she just doesn't seem to have cared enough. She never talks about him and when she does it is always something negative. She never really has anything good to say about him. She makes it sound like she fulfilled her duty and she has started talking about other men. She was married for 50 years! My father was a great man. How can she even think this way??