I'm sure I do complain a lot about going out & not getting dates and I usually think of myself like "No one wants to date me" however the fact is that guys have asked me out recently, it was just guys I was not interested in. Last Fri> (as I posted in my other post) I was at a club and a guy asked me for a date but he seemed kind of creepy to me, so I said no. A few weeks ago in the same club a man from Senegal asked me out--he was a lot nicer, but I was just not interested or attracted. And way back in March I had met this guy who was hosting a meetup--we had talked on the phone for a while before I met him in person, which was a pot luck dinner at his house. I thought he might be good--he was nice & funny. Unfortunately then when we met, I was instantly not attracted to him and he did make a comment that I thought was dumb about women getting things easy in divorces--there were a bunch of divorced women at this party who probably all disagreed with him! But when people were starting to leave, he asked me if I wanted to go for a walk on the beach--his house was literally right on the beach. But first of all it was March--pretty cold, which is not my idea of good beach walking weather and I was wearing boots! Then I didn't want to encourage him. But I'm sure he was interested in me. So in 4 mos., I probably could have dated 3 guys there. So it's the dilemma that probably most people do have--the people who like me, I don't like and the ones that I like aren't interested. But I suppose it's better for my ego to remind myself that at least some guys like me.