...and none of them suitable. Guy #1- The one I had a brief thing with back in May. He keeps resurfacing, but I'm 99% sure all he wants is sex. He's never flat out said it, or even that he doesn't want a relationship, but he stopped trying to even see me a long time ago so I'm not considering him dating material at all. However, if I wanted to just have sex, I'm sure he'd oblige. I do like him as a person, so I'm trying to remain friendly. I've seen/heard from him about every two weeks this summer. His status: friendly acquaintance. Guy #2- The one from back in December who was SUPER into me, asked my friends all about me, asked me to come see his band and hang out with him at a party at his place (I said no- I wasn't comfortable with that then). Eventually I got tired of him not actually asking me out despite behaving like he wanted to. I called him on it. He said- you guessed it- he didn't want a relationship. To his credit, he never tried to get physical with me. I still see him regularly and we went through a period where he was a jerk, and I was pretty witchy to him. We're back to being friendly again. Yet...another guy who doesn't want a relationship. His status at the moment: fun to flirt with, no potential. Then there's Guy #3- The only one not in a band. We go to the same karaoke place occasionally. I don't go there often, but I think he does. We've never talked at all until about a month ago. He seemed like a pretty nice guy. Last night, we got to talking again, and he asked if I had a boyfriend. I told him no, and he gave me his card and said he'd go out with me (I told him there were men, but none interested in actually dating). I had kind of gotten the feeling he was interested before, so I wasn't shocked. He's a car salesman, really tall, and possibly older than I'd prefer. I'm not sure, though. The problem? I don't really find him attractive. He's one of those goofy guys that people like, but you're not sure if you can take seriously. His status: I'd like to be friends. That's about it. It sucks that the ones we are into always seem to have an issue or don't want a relationship, and the ones into us are the ones we don't want anything with. I think I'm going to hold on to tall guy's card and maybe text him the next time I go to that place. I mean he put himself out there and all. It won't be for at least two weeks, so it's not like I'll seem eager to see him. Part of me wonders if I should give him a chance since the ones I have been picking don't seem to ever work out, but I just can't imagine even kissing this guy! I don't know if it'd be fair to him.