This board is a support community for members whose spouses/significant others have betrayed them. This board is not a place for those who betrayed their spouses or for those in an affair. We intend for this board to be a forum for adults to safely share their experiences and get support. Any posts that violate these guidelines will be removed, and can result in immediate banning from the site.
Before you post, please consider your situation and the following boards which may be more appropriate for you and your situation.
If you are in the process of ending your affair, please visit Ending an Affair Support  (EAS).
If you have ended your affair, please visit After the Affair support (AAS).
If you would like to debate the effects of infidelity, please visit All Sides of an Affair debate board.
Above all, please remember that this is a public forum and problematic posts should be reported to the Community Team for review and possible removal to avoid disrupting the board.
If you have any questions or concerns, please email firstname.lastname@example.org. 
Thank you for your cooperation and for your participation in our forums.