I have a question. Do your boys shower with their dads? I'm a mom of girls so I don't know how it is with boys. The reason I ask is that I was away on vacation at the beach. The beach house has an outside shower stall for showers mainly for rinsing off sand etc. You can take a full shower as there is a shower curtain and a holder for shampoo etc. Anyway, usually it's not used that way as people mainly just rinse off with the door open. Well, the other day we came back to rinse off and the door was closed. We waited a good 15 mins and still no one came out. I then knocked and said I was waiting for the shower and the guy said he would be out. We still waited another 15 minutes when he finally came out--with a 12/13 year old boy! They were both dressed with shorts on and they had shampoo. I was shocked but I don't know if it was an innocent thing or a Sandusky thing. Like I said I don't have boys so don't know if it's unusual. I thought they were taking too long because I have two daughters and I give them baths and wash their hair and they even play a little and it doesn't take that long. That was why I was concerned. Do you think it's normal?