Yeah so I am going to get on my soapbox for a minute and I hope you all don't judge me for what I am about to say. I love my family (immediate) I really do but I don't love my sister like I should. 5 years ago I had her put in jail for Meth. My parents were devestated but I tried to tell them that something was going on, but did they listen noooooo! She was served with divorce papers while in jail and her 2 year old was taken from her. I now find out she has been going to the methadone clinic since getting out of jail 5 YEARS AGO!! She doesn't work, has an illigitimate child with a man that won't get divorced and marry her yet my parents do everything they can to make sure SHE is taken care of. I don't get it she isn't the only child, I have never done drugs and I NEVER ask my parents for anything yet they don't see that she is driving a wedge between our family. When I try to tell my mom what she is doing all she says is well she's a grown woman. I just don't understand. My mom is enabling her and she don't even see it. I don't talk to my sister because everytime I do it is the same old thing. It really bothers me but I have gotten to the point where I just don't talk to any of them. Sorry to ramble on my first post I'm just bothered by it all.