Okay, I've got a bit more to say than hello.
Update: I fell off the wagon (in a non-physical way) but I'm back on. I'm five months no contact, coming up to six. It's been easier this time around. He left his wife for someone new. My only thought was how crazy was this new woman?! Who would sign up for that nighmare of insecurity? And with that thought I asked myself what I was doing even trying to be friendly with someone I didn't trust or respect. So I sincerely wished him well and closed the door on all that stupidity.