So as you know, my husband is not supportive of me getting weight loss surgery. He said he would be supportive after he sees that I have made an effort to change my lifestyle and if it doesn't work. He says that getting wls now would be a waste of time and money because of my lifestyle. He wants me to spend the money on a wellness center instead. After speaking with my doctor, I've decided I would wait for a while and try the wellness center.I have lost 25 lbs over the last 9 or 10 months (thank God I have not gained) making small changes but I was hoping to get some kind of quick result and had hoped wls was the answer.