Because he did. I told him yes- I wanted kids. His response? He's torn, but he thinks he'd make a good dad. Sounds like a "just gimme enough time to convince you otherwise" comment to me. Or "I'll do whatever you want me to do". He's also made a comment about my "hot date" I must have later this week because I can't see him until next week. I'm sensing "emotionally needy"!!! You guys all know that doesn't fly with me! In the meantime, I did a little online sleuthing on the other guy. His last Facebook update was in 2011. Dead end so far! I do know he teaches where he said he does, though, so that's a good thing.