I am considering suggesting a threesome to my husband -- us and another woman. For context, I would describe our sex life as average. He is more sexual than I am and I know he wishes that I were more adventurous. This is not to say that I don't have fantasies or desire, but I have never been comfortable with talking about them with him. I am pretty sure he would be excited by the idea (I don't know very many men who wouldn't), and I have done some research on how to pick the other woman (someone we know vs. escort). I guess I just thought I would put the idea out here on the board to see if anyone has had experience with this and would like to offer some advice -- e.g. how you picked the third person, if you found it to be enjoyable, if you want to warn against it.
Any thoughts/advice is welcome.