Hi, me again. Well, I checked back to see when I posted about this, and it's been over a month. Evidently my DIL still hasn't forgiven my son about this. It was such a stupid thing to be mad about in the first place and then to tell others about it at the family reunion. I cannot believe it, but she still brings this up and she's still mad about it. Their counselor said that they won't get anywhere with the counseling until she can learn to forgive him. To refresh your memory, it was a comment he made to her about her family being fake and they pretend to like each other. She was the only one that heard it. He has apologized over and over again. How many times can you beat a dead horse???? My son is supposed to call me today and I'm going to suggest they go talk to their minister about how to forgive. DIL likesthisminister so maybe this could help. The counselor evidently has a crazy schedule that it's hard for them to get in without my son missing a bunch of work. I'm thinking they'll have to find someone else who has a more flexible schedule. It's too bad because this is a really good counselor, but that is why he's so busy. I'm just sick about this, again. I just feel like there's no hope for them if she can't grow up, learn to forgive, not make such a big deal out of little things, and move on. She's still spending too much time at her mommy's when he is at work. (Sorry about those words running together up above, when I tried to fix it it was eating the rest of the words, this has happened to me before anybody know why that happens?) I'm making an appointment with my own counselor again. I cannot bare the thought of my grandbaby living in separate households. But, it seems, by the way she is behaving that she doesn't really care if they are married or not. She has her baby and she has her life, and many things she does do not include my son either because he is working, or that she just makes plans without him. What kind of a marriage is this? I still think they should never have gotten married but too late for that! My husband has gone so far to say that she planned this. She just wanted a baby, and now she has one, so she has no use for our son. Could he be right?