Well I want to tell you all everything. My secret. I need counsel, advice and friendship. Please.
I am 47, married to a lovely man, children and a good life. We havent had a good marriage for many years and steadily grown apart for the past 10 yrs I guess. We are god together though- lovely home, lovely kids- we are good 'life partners' if that makes sense. But we are not great friends, lovers, confidantes- and we rarely laugh when its just us.
Enter Dean- (not his real name but that will do) . We have been lovers, best friends etc for nearly 3 years now. We see each other every day, without fail- coffee, chat, hug, a meal maybe, sex, weekjends away - just depends. I adore him and he adores me. He is separated and currently going through divorce.
I have been hapy but lately I feel like I dont know where I stand anymore. We have become more than lovers but I cant be involved in any aspect of his life - it hurts. But he calls me his wife and we say we will be together forever!
Ok well Id like to meet you al, join this group. I'll be here for you and maybe you will be here for me:)