Lately, my affair has ended. Its been very difficult on me because I really did love him and I know he really does love me. I know that only 2-5% of men actually leave their wife for the other woman and I know that wont happen with mine because he told me that he would never leave his wife for me.He would only divorce her if the marriage wasn't working. From the couple of responses that I did get, the wife is nuts and is missing some screws since she let her husband cuddle with another woman. I just wonder how long it will be before she decides that she can't take it anymore knowing her husband loves another woman the way he loves her. I am 29, she is 26 and he is 27.
Anyways, I am seeking therapy for my unhappines. She tells me that I am doing everything right and that I need to focus more on myself and keep working out and give myself some time since I am very impatient. Why the hell am I am seeing a therapist if I am doing everything right?!?!
Anyone else having this problem or HAD this problem? I have even read "will he leave her for me" and they had this quiz to asses the affair. That definitely helped me.
Its just frusterating that I love someone and that I can't be with him. I have gone out on a couple of dates, but my heart just isn't there. maybe I am trying to rush things and just need to let things happen as they should.