The thing I miss most now that my affair is over, is feeling like I have someone to be sexy for. I KNOW that I can take care of myself for ME but it was great to have someone to appreciate me. I always made sure my hair and nails were done....worked out, ate right, etc...because I had some real motivation to look the best I could. I am starting to let myself go because I feel like there is no need to impress anyone. I am 37 and I think i'm feeling uglier by the day !!!