I know it has only been a few days since I have found out. But I feel dead inside. We can talk calmly but I almost loose it when he wants to hold my hand or try and hug me. I feel no connection at all anymore. It's like we went from husband and wife to friends or brother and sister overnight. Sorry don't know how else to explain it. I can talk to him about everything, but any touching and I cringe and feel very uncomfortable, not mad, just, jeesh I can't explain it! . I am not picturing him with the other woman or anything like that, nor am I trying to punish him, it's just like our connection was immediately severed.