So I finally told my son that he is a DI baby. It didn't come out the way I had planned though. He was being a snotty teenager and told me that I was not his mom. I was not in the mood to deal with that attitude. Too top it off DH was being a jerk. So I told him fine you don't have to have me for a mom. But it didn't stop there. I then went on to say that his dad wasn't his real dad. The first thing he said was you cheated on him. So I clearified that right away. I explained that I used a sperm donor. He thought I was lying at first so I showed him this board. Then he said he wants to find his real dad. I am now trying to explain that isn't possible. It went better than I thought it would, but like I said not the way I would have wanted to tell him. I hate the teenage years!!!