So a guy I go to church with, who I hadn't talked to until about a month ago, lost his wife almost a year ago. I had sent him a message one day talking about his son and we had talked since. The third day we were talking he asked what I was doing and I told him I was shopping and he just sjowed up to say hi. Tuen a few days later after church we were at the sameresturant for lunch (small town) and after I left he told me he was going to nuy me a birthday ice cream sunday but I left too fast. He told a mutual friend that he "liked" me but now things seem different. Yes we have messed around a bit. I stayed over at his house (only cuddled) he seems to have been into me and now I'm confused. he hardly tezts back and our conversations are different now. He told me before he was ready to date but now he's not sure? Did he just lose interest or is the upcoming anniversay of his wifes death holding him back? If I don't text him will he contact me? Help please!