I met this guy online over the summer and for the most part he seems nice. But he confuses the hell out of me. We have had 9 dates and he only wants to text as far as communication, even though I dropped a hint that I would like to talk on the phone. He has hinted heavily that he does not want to always initiate communication, but lately it is mostly me. He got upset that I did not stay the night at his house even though he has not tried to kiss me(he admitted that he wanted to sleep with me)! He complained that he chased a woman(before me) and was mad at himself for liking her more than he thought she liked him. I'm not gonna obsess over this, but a little advice would be appreaciated.