The guy in this article (going around on Facebook) has a two-year-old daughter and says being selfish makes him a better dad—he goes out to clubs and spends tons of cash. "I’m not living for her. I’m living for me. Me me me." But by then end, I started to see his point. It made me want to start living a bit more that way, cuz as a mom, I try but who has time. How do you all deal with DHs with busy social lives without resenting them?