I have met the love of my life. We have been together for almost five years. We are so good for each other. The problem is that he says that he doesn't want to get married. I was previously married before, and ended up divorcing, but have always said that if I were to find the right person (which I believe this person is), that I would want to marry again. How would you handle this? My SO's reason for not wanting to marry is that we would have to pay higher taxes, but yet every now and then, he will bring up "If we were ever to get married." I am somewhat distraught and confused. Please help.