I have been on here in the past, no so much anymore, but I thought I would come back and share a link that kind of 99.9% describes how I feel. I am a HL male.
Some of the best one's I have read are the following:
Husband’s Sexual Needs: Man Or Monster?
Refusal: Just Because He Stopped Asking Doesn’t Mean He Stopped Wanting
TO WIVES: Why Is Sex So Important?
When a Wife Doesn’t Want to Have Sex
What I do understand is I'm really not helping myself at all with my attitude towards my wife, in regards to the resentment, etc. I have tried so hard in the past to get past this, but the more rejections I got, the more of the attitude I got "Why bother", in regards to sex and just spending time with her in general.
In my own defense why would I want to put the time and effort, which I have in the past, only to be rejected by her time and time again?
Just put this here really to help both HL and LL understand, not really trying to take a side.