I have been married to this person for 4 years, third marriage for him. Lately he seems to try to convince me that something is wrong with me. Today he began to point out that I missed a couple of steps on the dance floor, these are dances that I taught him and he has two left feet. He is always putting other men down, commenting on their belly, their hair, the way they dress, etc. It only takes a look or a few words for him to blow up. He stopped one man at the dance one night and told him that he could not sing, and got mad when the man got on stage and sang anyway. I am really concerned for I believe he could be dangerous.