They've been in the affair some two years. Our divorce just became final.
Kids have not yet met the mistress. Kids & I are in a townhome, because it made no sense to keep our house.
Just found out that mistress has moved into our family home.
They swear they are the nth of a % who are going to make it &, indeed, they appear cemented together. He has told his parents all these lies about me & after 20 years of thinking I hung the moon, I am scum & this new woman is awesome. His mother, thus, because of her pushy personality as well, is trying to force the kids to meet her & like her. At the same time, she can not help but say horrible things about me to them.
I guess Im wondering ... SHOULD they meet the woman? SHOULD they try & like her? What should I do? And how does one deal with this humiliation to me? Heck, the woman got my husband, is settling into our family home now, & now trying to get my kids.
My husband has been bribing them w/material things. Lately he is bribing them, saying he will take them on more trips & vacations if they accept her.