I was engaged to a man 10 years ago who I gave my virginity to. I was so overwhelmed and surprised that he found me attractive(I have body image issues). Well that relationship did not work out and after a couple more dissapointing relationships, I made the decision to wait until I'm married to have sex again. One guy recently told me that I was basically useless to him becuase I would not sleep with him. I know this may be very unpopular but I'm not backing down! I'm standing firm on what I believe as a Christian and I just hope there are others out there.