First time on here, and just need some advice really please (I find it difficult to speak to people about this face to face, so thought I'd try this way)!
I'm 32, and my Fiancé is 37. I've been with him for almost 11 and a half years, while I love him to bits, he doesn't seem that interested in sex (although, I'll admit I wasn't really, but over the past couple of years, i've lost almost 50lbs, so I'm starting to feel a bit more "sexy" and slightly more confident in myself) - anyways...
We very rarely have sex, I can't even remember the last time we did - I'll hazard a guess and say it was May/June time this year and I'm starting to get a little bit frustrated - I've tried initiating things with him - sometimes he responds, sometimes he doesn't, think it depends on how he's feeling at the time really - but when we do have sex, it doesn't last that long, and I've yet to be given an orgasm by him (or any man for that matter).
I still don't feel confident to get dressed up or anything along those lines, as I don't really want to be knocked back by him.
If anyone has any kind of suggestions or has gone through a similar experience, I'd really appreciate your help/responses on this.
Thanks very much