Hello fellow BS’s;
I am back with a slight problem. My bf (As you know also is a BS) went away on business and has been gone for about a week and a half, planning to stay three weeks. He also mixes business with pleasure i.e. golfing, restaurants, ect.
This time he brought his sister because she caught her DH cheating on her, when she confronted him he hit her and got arrested. Her DH is in jail and bf thought she might like time to get away. She has filed for divorce.
Bf never had a smartphone and just got an IPhone (I have a droid). As you know I check his emails, banks, as I am his “manager” and book his vacation rentals and deal with his residence tenants.
The other day while booking rentals, I noticed he took pics of himself at the beach and sent them to his new Gmail account (This is the only account I do not have access to as he just got he IPhone before he left and you need a Gmail/google account to set it up). They were not nasty photos; just posed ones at the beach.
I was confused as to:
1. Why he didn’t send me a pic?
2. Why he sent it to his Gmail rather than his other accounts I have access to?
He is very unfamiliar with the IPhone and I had to show him how to use it before he went away. I think his sister took the pics..
Anyway, my friends are telling me that the only reason he would do this is to upload photos to a dating website. They are pushing me to break into his email and find out. His sister is actively on match and plenty of fish, so I checked out them but he was not on them. These photos were taken yesterday morning…What would you do? Am I overreacting or do I start my investigation??? I can go to his house and find the password but I don't want to start checking on his every move like I did with XH and I am afraid of what I will find :(
He is not computer savvy so that is why I do all of his bookings and pay his bills online.. He would never know how to join a dating website; as before he met me he was on yahoo personals that his friend had to set up, as well as set up his facebook for him. It boggles my mind that he would even do this, and the fact that the sister may even be assisting him as they are both BS’s like me!!!! I understand I may be off base with this :(