I have been doing a dance with a guy for almost six months. I am a MW and he is in a relationship. He never seems overly loyal to this relationship. He just sort of goes with the flow. Anyway, we have flirted quite a lot and talked about sex quite a bit. He seems anxious when he is alone with me, so I thought he was afraid I would make a move on him. I told him I never make a first move, and he is safe from me putting him in a siutation that may lead to something he feels guilty about. He says he is more worried about putting me in a situation and doesn't want things to be awkward for me. All I want is something physical on the side right now. But I don't know if he is the type to go for it. He says we need to talk about it "in person", so I don't know why it has to be that way. Why can't it be over the phone? If he wants to back off, wouldn't he just want to do it over the phone? I am going to lay my cards on the table when we talk and hope he is up for what I propose, but I can't be entirely sure. Anyone have any insight?