is apparently easier said than done. If you have been following my story you already know that I had an A last year with a guy I have known since high school. We are both attached. I have an amazing man at home but there is just something missing and I found it in this guy. He on the other hand is only with his girl for convenience or so I am told but not in that word. Eventually, things tapered off and then stopped all together and I ended up coming clean to my man...which led to his girl finding out. We had no communication for almost a year then started texting and seeing each other again. We got to know each other better then finally after a month we kissed. Then a week later he stopped any contact again. I see him all the time...catch him behind me on the road but he acts like he doesn't even notice me or something. So I posted on this board needing to vent about my hurt and confusion. Someone posted a response about the best way to get over a guy is get a new one. Well, after a month or so of no contact and weird behaviors from this guy I decided to try out another guy I had a one night A with in the past. I am trying really hard but I can't help but compare anyone and everyone to this other guy. I feel that I am over him but I still miss him and wish things would start back up with him. I think it has to do with this guy never making it feel like I was just a sexual plaything and anyone else does. I am starting to think that I should just give up. Ideas?