Alright….there is a guy that works in my building that I am interested in. We haven’t really had the opportunity to interact face to face with each other. However, I know who he is and I know he knows who I am. Our matchmaking coworkers have been at work and all I’ve heard about the last month is that I need to meet him. They have even took liberties to team up with his immediate coworkers and they think its a good idea as well.
I’ve heard my number was given but was told that this guy feels like it is unnatural to call me before we have actually met. Problem is— We’ve seen each other at work but always at times where it is not opportune to officially introduce ourselves or chat (meetings, etc). The more I hear about him is that he is super nice, but kind of shy. He's about to rotate to a different department for a couple months and I think the likelihood of meeting organically will even be less when this happens.
The single girl detective (not stalker...I promise!) in me noticed he does have a facebook. Would it be weird to message him or request to be friends? Part of me says it is kinda stalkerish. However, the other part says– why not? I don’t have anything to loose. Thoughts?