I have been single for 3 years now, I have gone on dates none worked out. I've tried the online dating where the person of choice is in another state and I am in another state but that never worked either. All I am getting or ever get is guys messaging me with photos of their penis or asking me if I would want to hook-up or do a friends with benefits thing or if I am bi or a lesbian or would be willing to do a threesome or have a threesome relationship etc. The list is endless really and yeah I know a lot of you have probably dealt with the same if not similar or weirder experiences.
Or I have dealt with the usual the guy says he is interested then never talks to me except the one time we really talked then he disappears, coming back way later to say he was still interested when he clearly was not.
I just don't know what to do anymore. I am only 26 years old I know I am young but I don't want to find my partner when I am 35 or 40 thats too old and we won't be able to live long and grow old together as long as if I had met them while I am still young.
I don't know anymore I am tired of trying to find someone, it seems like I won't be able to find anyone who meets what I am looking for. Another thing people keep bothering me about is the fact that I dislike and never want kids of my own. Who cares? Not everyone wants kids there is nothing wrong with that.
Also the fact that yes I am one a Virgin and how I should have sex now not wait until I am 30 or 35 or even 40. Who cares about sex? Sex causes a lot of problems, drama, diseases, pregnancy, etc. I would rather wait until I am married because to me it's what I want to do, and the right thing to do.
Again to me I am just tired of trying and just don't know what to do.