i haven't been on here in a few years. I got divorced to a guy who had no interest in me whatsoever. Sexual or any other way. i have been dating a guy for almost 5 years who is completely the opposite.
the problem though : I am EVERYTHING to this guy. he has no interests outside of me. I love the attention & my self esteem has way bounced back from a sexless marriage. I need to break up with this guy because my kids don't like him, my ex has refused to let the kids be around him =-and he (in the long term) is controlling and obsessed with me.
i went to a counselor today & i think my biggest resistance is the constant rejection I got from the ex-hubby. I don't think I will have to deal with that again - but- it did do a lot of damage. I enjoy feelng desireable , and don't know if I will ever have that again. I am not overweight, but I am 45 years old =dealing with 45-year old stuff. I really enjoy sex - and don't want the possibility of life without it again.