Well the nightmare has arrived! ugh!
AP left his phone unlocked and unattended. CRAP! His wife found texts between us that was very obvious we were having an A. She found me on his FaceBook page too (although we've never communicated thru that... it's just to look at family pics). This was the 3rd time she's caught him. yeah.. he's a serial cheater. She screamed at him all night til 4am. then woke up and yelled some more. I guess she's not throwing him out.
BUT...... he and I are leaving tomorrow for a 4 day business trip (I go with him when he goes out of town). We are still going. He said we have to cool it when we get back. I don't think he can just give up what we have. We've been together for nearly 4 years and are very close (yes. we say ILY).
My stomach is in knots. I was so excited for our trip. This kinda took the "wind out of my sails".