Looking for some advice.
I am a 36 year old man and my wife is 34.
Married 6 years very happily
2 kids - 4 and 2 yrs old
Our sex life was great until 7 months into pregnancy no 2. Probably made love at least 3 times per week which satisfied us both. Since then once every 3-4 weeks which isn't enough for me
I feel I have tried everything. I do a lot round the house chore wise and look after the kids on my own on 2 nights per week to give her time for her. My job means I am good at understanding emotional needs so feel I have really listened and done all I can to ensure she doesn't feel "just a mum". Financially very secure.
I have tried a number of things in terms of the sex - date night, romance, suggestions to spice things up, and have told my wife directly I am not happy
I feel we are very young to be saying goodbye to this part of our life but really don't know what else to do. I love my family and would not jeopardise that, however really feel this is starting to affect me. Am I just supposed to accept this for the next 30 years.