He moved back to calif with 2 day notice to me, quit his job and just left. He says it's what he had to do to get sober and reconnect with 12 yr old son, devasted me. But I now realize if that's the only way he can get sober then I have to be ok with that, they have aa meetings everywhere out there and none here. It's just the way he did it, he was drinking at the time. Im moving back also there is nothing here for me it's a small town,And I accomplished what I moved out here for which was to get my life back in order hadn't worked in 5 yrs that's what I did when I got here and have worked the whole time out here. And don't really know many people except whom I work with after being out here for almost 2 yrs I miss my kids and grand babies that are in cali. But I'm so confused don't know if we should try and make it work, I love him when he is sober, he says he loves me, he is going to meetings in calif already which is great, but i'm scared moving back I will have to start all over again. I want to be with him, but there was so much fighting when he was drinking I don't know if or relationship is repairable.