I just told my husband yesterday that I wanted to stop doing all the bills and let him do them because it's too stressful for me. Now I don't want to hand them over to him, though, because he doesn't know how bad it really is. The mortgage is late and I'll probably have to borrow from my mom to pay for it and I don't want to tell my husband about that. I'm 2 months behind on the credit card bills. I'm in such a mess. I don't know what to do. ~~~Angie