Since my DF lost his job in January, he's been working for a temp service. He's getting ready to start his fourth assignment with them within the next week. Well, anyone who's ever worked for a temp service knows that A) the pay isn't that good B) there are no benefits, and C) it's not stable work. So today, I heard of a really good job that I wanted to tell DF about, with excellent benefits and above average pay for this area, the only thing he would have to do is get some old fines cleared up so he can get his drivers license in this state (he hasn't had one since he moved her a year ago.) It's almost $800 by now, and every time we've almost gotten it saved up, something has happened where we've had to use it to pay bills or buy groceries. So, anyway, I called DF and told him about it, and do you know what he said?? "But honey, I have a job." Referring to this next assignment the temp service has for him! Granted, it's at the best company in the area, but it's a TEMP JOB for piddly squat $$$$!!! I was floored. I would almost beg, borrow and steal to get this $$$ for him to get his license if it meant he'd finally have a permanent well paying job again! So, WTF?!?!?! He even mentioned the other day he needed a permanent job, so why all of a sudden is he acting like I'm crazy when I tell him of one that he could almost surely get just by doing this one little thing???